Is your spirituality organic or on steroids?

by | Apr 19, 2017 | Uncategorized | 0 comments

What if real spiritual growth is organic?

What if it is not in a hurry but has its own seasonal rhythm?

What if it is less like Tony Robbins and more like a tomato plant?

So much of what we call “spirituality” is actually about trying to get you somewhere you’re not. It’s what I call steroid-spirituality. As if we need to perform to become something else.

And it’s the same thing at the yoga studio as it is in the cathedral

Steroid-spirituality is all about selling us an image of a destination. There is always some level of attainment, some enlightenment, some holiness, some evolved version of ourselves that is put on the screen and we are sold the path towards it.

It looks like a yoga sequence or a meditative state or a moral purity or a transmission or an altered state of consciousness. But underneath it all is a quality of striving to become something we’re not already.

Consider, if you will, the tomato plant…

A tomato plant is an amazing thing. It grows all on its own if you give it the right environment. It needs nutrients from the soil and sunlight. And, if it gets these things and is left to follow its own inner compass, it will bear beautiful, juicy fruit as its gift to the world.

And you know what happens when we put tomato plants on steroids? They look big and they look juicy but they have no taste. Don’t believe me? Go buy a commercially grown tomato and bite it. On the steroids of science and business we have a fruit that looks good but there is no reality there.

The whole gift of the tomato, its taste, has been lost.

It is the same with steroid-spirituality. And the cost is the unique flavor of our own being and truth.

The cost of striving to become an image we think we need to be and trying desperately to live a life that is not the one we are living now is that even if we succeed we have lost the most precious thing in the process: ourselves.

I should know. I used to teach steroid spirituality. I used to project an image and tell myself and others how to get to be just like that thing out there. I even had my own image of what a spiritual teacher was supposed to look like and I was striving to become something I was not already. I was the tasteless tomato.

And, you know what, there are only so many tasteless tomatoes you can eat (or be) before you start wondering if there might be another way.

There is. Organic spirituality is the end of the lie that we need to be anywhere other than where we find ourselves right now. It has become my mission to teach people how to grow right where they are, to harness the nutrients of the life they are already living, and allow their inner intelligence to produce delicious, juicy fruit to share with the world.

But how? How do we make the switch from commercial to organic spirituality? Here are four important principles of organic spiritual growth:

1. You are the answer. Whatever the question your life is asking you in any moment, the answer is always the truth of who you already are.

Learning to distinguish that authentic melody that is you from the noise of culture and conditioning is a journey and not necessarily easy. But it’s very simple. And that is important. Whatever response is called for you can relax because it is something you already are.

Notice the word “relax”. Trusting that you are the answer eliminates the frantic search to figure out something you don’t already know or have. This makes all the difference.

2. Your body is the perfect spiritual technology. Instead of making the body a problem or an obstacle or a faulty vessel that needs healing organic spirituality understands the body as a spiritual instrument of the highest order.

When we are at home in our bodies we have the best chance of receiving and expressing the truth. Simply learning to pay attention to our bodies as they are in the moment transforms our consciousness.

Our bodies are not optional in this life and they are not a problem. As we become present to our embodied experience we harness all the concentrated spiritual energy that is physical matter. It’s a lot.

3. Your life is speaking to you. Right now your life is speaking to you and giving you guidance. When we learn to listen to our lives we get precious information customized just for us.

Our own direct experience becomes the authority rather than any external program or conditioning. Over time, with repeated experimentation, we learn exactly where we grow best and what conditions allow us to bear the greatest fruit for our communities and our world.

4. Your feelings aren’t a problem. Most suffering in our lives is caused by the unwillingness to feel what we are actually feeling. We create elaborate strategies and masks that cause endless suffering instead of feeling what we feel.

Everything changes when we allow ourselves to feel our emotions as they come. There is no story, simply the truth of the moment and the feeling that is moving through. And without resistance we allow ourselves to be ourselves and that is the only thing there is.

Organic spirituality is a path of direct experience that unfolds at a human pace and produces Practical Enlightenment, which is, in my experience, the only kind of enlightenment worth having.

If you are curious about this approach please check out my free course on Practical Enlightenment.

Originally Published:


Submit a Comment

Why prayer is worth experimenting with

Why prayer is worth experimenting with

The opposite of trying to control the world is praying for it. When we try to manage the world and other people so that none of our sore spots are triggered we create suffering. Most of us have proved this to ourselves over decades of trying. The opposite of...

What is Practical Enlightenment?

What is Practical Enlightenment?

I am a “spiritual” teacher and I have a secret…. I don’t like spirituality. And I don’t think I’m alone. I have lost count of the number of times I have been part of a retreat or workshop or class or spiritual gathering filled with apparently earnest and bustling...

    Your Cart
    Your cart is emptyReturn to Shop