I am convinced that at the level of essence we are all lovable and worthy. Absolutely. 100%. We do not need to earn anything from Life. We are loved whether we figure it out or not. But you know what? Human relationship is not unconditional. That is a paradox that I...
When did we stop dancing? If I could myself and others just one instruction for living ourselves awake it would be this: breathe and move. It all comes back to these two simple sacraments. The breath and the body. If we are in relationship with these mysteries then we...
What is forgiveness? For me, the really powerful truth of forgiveness is that it is a *different way of seeing* which holds the tension between our essence and our ego. We are so conditioned to identify with our pain body that whether we are acting from love: “I...
Hey friends – Guest post by an amazing guy and good friend, John Roche. He nails the basic trap of immature intimacy. Original post here. Relationships have a unique power to make us feel totally shitty about ourselves. Some of that has to do with loneliness,...
It is an act of great courage and revolution to find connection with other men! http://www.elephantjournal.com/2016/07/dear-men-this-is-how-we-start-a-revolution/ I would love to get a big conversation going so please share widely amongst your networks. I would also...
Dear men, Last night I couldn’t sleep. I felt very frightened and disturbed by the political scene in the U.S., which is simply evidence of much deeper fractures. I wondered what I could do. I wondered what we could do as men to shift the culture of violence we...
