Dear Men, I have been inspired by Tad Hargrave’s very valuable series of open letters to white men that invite those of us in that group to wake up to our privilege. It is a powerful challenge. I want to address men. Period. And my wake up call is to the violence we...
“The inevitability of human drama…” This is my favorite line from the completely underrated and spiritually brilliant movie “I Heart Huckabees.” It seems to me that everybody wants to sell us a better life and the spiritual marketplace is no...
When is the last time you told yourself or another “I’m trying!” Whether it is trying to meditate, to overcome an addiction, to be compassionate, to exercise, to eat well, the personal growth world these days is full of trying. But it doesn’t work. Trying is what you...
Most of us really dislike conflict in our relationships. If this is you then yot get so stuck there so often and so easily that you learn to really resist it. But if you know how, conflict becomes one of the greatest forces for intimacy in your life. There are...